Frequently asked questions
Everything you want to know about Nos limites.
What is Nos limites?
Nos limites is a web app that allows two people to mutually define the boundaries of their relationship. Each person independently checks the behaviors they accept, and only limits checked by both are revealed.
Can the other person see what I checked?
No, never. Your individual choices remain strictly confidential. Only limits that BOTH of you checked are revealed. If you check something but not the other person, they won't know.
How does the matching system work?
It works like a "match": each person checks their limits on their side. The app then compares both lists and only reveals items in common. This system protects your vulnerability.
What is the link between Nos limites and consent?
Nos limites is a mutual consent tool. It allows two people to express their boundaries confidentially and only reveal what is accepted by both. It's a modern and caring way to practice informed consent in any relationship.
Does Nos limites replace a conversation about consent?
No, it's a complement. Nos limites opens dialogue by identifying common boundaries, but communication remains essential. The app is a starting point for deeper, more honest conversations about your limits and those of the other person.
Is my data safe?
Yes. Your limit data is encrypted. The app is GDPR compliant: you can export or delete all your data at any time. We never sell your data.
How do I delete my account?
Go to your profile settings and click "Delete my account." All your personal data, relationships, and limits will be permanently erased.
Is the app free?
Yes, Nos limites is completely free. No hidden fees, no subscription.
Can I use it without installing?
Yes! Nos limites works directly in your browser. You can also install it as a native app from your browser for quicker access.